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Stick to the Plan

I, along with so many others in our community, are cheering on the Seattle Mariners, even though they are over 3000 miles away from our mountain home in North Carolina. Why? Because Cal Raleigh is our home town player!

Cal was born in Jackson County, North Carolina. He attended Smoky Mountain High School where I taught, and his mother was my co-worker. His father is the former head baseball coach at Western Carolina University located down the road in Cullowhee. We are all SO proud of Cal!

My husband Phil, a life long baseball fan, has been a bit disconcerted with my avid interest in baseball lately. We have visited 19 of the 30 major league baseball parks over the almost 50 years of our marriage, but my personal interest in baseball has been nominal at best. Then Cal was drafted by the Mariners. That changed everything.

Cal was a part of our Fellowship of Christian Athletes leadership team (along with his sister, Emma) at Smoky Mountain High School of which I was a faculty sponsor. Cal had his senior prom pictures taken in our yard (because of our vintage barn and rock walls). He was, and is, a fine young man and we are proud of his recent accomplishments and are cheering him and the team on in this run to the World Series.

My friends Carol and Alice Marie and I text each other during Mariner games and our college friends on the west coast are cheering for the Mariners as well. We have recruited fans!!! Carol and I attended Seattle Pacific University so we have dear friends in the Seattle area. I have NEVER watched baseball games this closely since our son Benjamin played Little League.

I have been listening to interviews with the players and a reoccurring theme post-season voiced by Cal, a team leader, and other Mariners players is – Stick to the Plan.

The pressure during playoff games is incredible. They face the reality of “win or go home”. There may be two outs, two on base, and a full count … what pressure at that moment!!! and then they say – “stick to the plan.” The ultimate plan is to win the World Series and each player has a role to play to get to that victory.

Stick to the Plan – sounds easy doesn’t it? Yet when the pressure is on, in a game and in life, it is difficult to stick to the plan when you feel like reaching the goal is all up to YOU. The key appears to be understanding your role, doing your very best to fulfill that role, and leaving the rest to the team.

For years Phil has drawn parallels between sports and our spiritual life in his teaching and preaching. So I am following his lead. I see a clear connection between “stick to the plan” and facing pressure spiritually.

  • know the plan – Matthew 22: 37-39 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” 37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’
  • know my part in the plan – I John 4:7-8 7 Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. 8 Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love.
  • stick to the plan – don’t get distracted Hebrews 12:1-3 Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us. 2 We do this by keeping our eyes on Jesus, the champion who initiates and perfects our faith. Because of the joy awaiting him, he endured the cross, disregarding its shame. Now he is seated in the place of honor beside God’s throne. 3 Think of all the hostility he endured from sinful people; then you won’t become weary and give up.

Love the Lord our God

Love our neighbors

Fix our eyes on Jesus – the One who initiates and perfects our faith.

By God’s grace may we Stick to the Plan

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I Need Your Help – Really?

“Phil, I need your help. I want to move the gardenia bush from the pot it has been growing in. It’s root bound and needs more space.”

Phil obligingly gets a shovel and a wheelbarrow and says – “Where do you want the hole?”

“Right here.” I reply. I am standing next to an especially favorite hydrangea between a calla lily and a yellow daylily. I have positioned my self to “protect” these plants from the shovel. So I say to Phil –

“Don’t step there!”

“Dig from this side.”

“Watch out for the lily poking through.”

“Don’t pile the dirt there!!”

Phil stops digging and asks – “Do you want my help or not?”

The realization of my request for help sets in. I want Phil to dig the hole because I am not able. YET – I have made it impossible for Phil to help me with the limitations I have put on him. He has to stand somewhere, and the dirt he digs to make a hole has to go somewhere. I am not really asking Phil for “help”, I am telling him what to do.

This realization got me thinking about my cries of help to God. I may be facing a crisis and cry out to God “Help me” yet in the next breath I am telling God what to do, when to do it, and the outcome I expect.

I am giving the God of the universe, omnipotent, omniscient, creator and sustainer of all things – advice. Really?

Proverbs 3: 5-6 says –

Trust in the Lord with all your heart;
do not depend on your own understanding.
6 Seek his will in all you do,
and he will show you which path to take.

Do not depend on my own understanding…

How often I think I know what is best… for myself, my husband, my children, my grandchildren, my friends, my acquaintances, my enemies, even random people I don’t know – “That person should just…”, my grandchild’s coach, the referees or umpires, my pastor, the worship leader?

The list could go on and on couldn’t it?

How totally presumptuous of me!! Is God thinking – “Do you really want my help or not?”

The answer is TRUST. I must trust in the Lord with all my heart. I must surrender my will to God’s will. God knows the big picture as well as each small detail of my life, i.e. the number of hairs on my head. Scripture is very clear on the fact that God has a plan for all of creation and a plan for how I, as an individual, fit into that bigger, glorious plan. He will direct my path.

To finish the above story about transplanting, I left to get water to soak the newly transplanted gardenia since Phil did not need me telling him HOW, after I told him where I wanted it planted. When I returned, Phil had placed it in the newly dug hole and the surrounding plants were just fine.

Trust.

# In My Garden with God

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Matchless Love

We have recently been blessed by the birth of our first great-grandchild.

Alice Caroline Ledford

What joy she has brought to our family! We are thankful for her health and enjoying the response to her arrival from grandparents, aunts, great aunts and uncles, and second cousins.

Alice is surrounded by LOVE.

Our extended family is enamored of Alice and I am already being accused of dominating the available time for holding her. I just can’t seem to get enough cuddle time. I have to remind myself of the time honored advice – “let sleeping babies lie”. We haven’t had a little baby in our immediate family for 9 years and I now have “Grandma’s Precious” again. (It is hard to call grandsons who are over 6 ft. tall “precious”)

I was talking to my friend, Joyce, about God’s love for us and she was reminding me that God loves us – not because of what we DO – but because of who He is. We can never DO anything to make God love us more – His love is unconditional. As the old hymn states – God’s love is “so amazing, so divine, demands my soul, my life, my all”

Our love for Alice is just a tiny reflection of God’s matchless love for us. Alice has not done anything to earn our love. She eats, sleeps, cries, poops, and repeats those behaviors – all to our delight. Delight because those behaviors demonstrate her health and development as a human being. Her crying doesn’t change our love. A messy diaper doesn’t change our love. A smile swells our hearts – but it doesn’t change a love that is already full to overflowing.

Ephesians 3: 18-19 explains the power of God’s love in our lives.

18 And may you have the power to understand, as all God’s people should, how wide, how long, how high, and how deep his love is. 19 May you experience the love of Christ, though it is too great to understand fully. Then you will be made complete with all the fullness of life and power that comes from God.

What a wonderful picture of God’s love for us! We can’t fully understand it – yet as I hold little Alice and my heart swells with love – I get a glimpse of my Father’s great love for me.